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Some of you probably won’t believe me and that is fine, but this is the honest truth. When I was in the corporate world for 25 years, the thing that got me to the top fast was taking myself out of my comfort zone and trying things I had never done before.
I totally understand, and you are right I did have a job. But when I found myself freaking out after I left my job, realising that I had a baby to support and that failure was not an option, I soon discovered I needed to figure out fast how I could use that same mindset to move forward in my own business and support my family.
Being an ‘A’ grade student all my life, and succeeding in the corporate world, definitely set me up with the mindset that failing was not an option. But then one day my mentor told me I was looking at it the wrong way.
What if I actually had a go, made some mistakes, but learned something new that would help me grow my business faster, would that be failing?
When I thought about it, I realised that by not having a go, I was failing more and that through some of my stuff ups, I’d actually became quite skilled along the way.
In fact, when I actually sat back and looked at how far I’d come, from a complete beginner in business, I was pleasantly surprised.
You see I was focusing on all the things I could not do and all the things I had not accomplished instead of all the things I had achieved in a very short period of time. That was a huge learning curve for me.
Focus on the growth, not the ‘yet to learn’ or the ‘hiccups’ along the way.
I was so much out of my comfort zone that it kept me in spin trying to master it all. Anyone here know that feeling?
So I had to dig deep to figure out a way to overcome this fear of….
Yes for the first 3 years as an entrepreneur I had all these fears going around in my head too.
You see there is nothing, I mean nothing that irks me more, or gets me more riled than someone telling me I CAN’T do something.
Ask my husband he will tell you. If ever he wants me to do something he tells me he does not think I can do it, knowing that it is like waiving a red flag to a bull with VERY SHARP HORNS!
But there is a few exceptions to the rules eg. when it comes to cooking, or the dishes, then I run in the other direction happily 🙂
I remember when I bought my first home in my early thirties and the guy I was dating at the time did not want to buy a house even though I really wanted to.
I remember his words clear as day, “You will need to find a minimum of $13k for a deposit, you will never save that amount”.
I said to him, “If I save $13k will you do it?”
He said, “Yep, not going to happen” and went back to having a beer smirking to himself that a woman could save any money at all.
Well it took me exactly 12 weeks to save $13k and I went on to put an offer on our first home. But what was even smarter, I dumped him 12 mths later, bought him out of the house and doubled my money within 3 years! Look whose laughing now!
Hindsight is a wonderful thing, which is why I am sharing this with you now so you don’t have to wait to figure it out yourself.
These days when I am scared to do something, I set myself a challenge and a deadline to achieve it. Why?
Because I hate to not meet a deadline [Corporate deadlines have become my best learned skill, thank you Corporate Job!].
Are you ready to create the exact same Success Shift in your business, your life and your mindset?
If the answer is yes, and you want to succeed faster and easier than you’ve ever thought possible, then make sure to watch the Dare Challenge on Monday.
Just so you know, yes I still use this in my business today in fact….I am going through a personal Dare at the moment. It is totally freaking me out, but
This has been bugging me for a while and I decided I could no longer ignore this epidemic that has been growing before my eyes over the last 12 months. At first I thought it must be a faze women entrepreneurs were going through, but as the months went by I just saw it getting worse and worse.
Women who were once alive and thriving, are now just existing online, living ground hog day on social media, in their business and day to day lives.
Even I went through it for a short time too, so I know what it feels like.
So what are SheZombies and do you have the symptoms?
There are many women who seem to have lost their spark because their passion for what they are doing is just not there and their sense of fun, community, giving and vision has slowly disintegrated into a world of SheZombies on the world wide web.
I have noticed a great divide happening in the mentoring community online in the last 18 mths whereby coaching has become so far beyond reach for the average woman that they have been left floundering to figure it out for themselves in a sea of blog posts, webinars, social media snippets and events with little to no results in their business.
The help that was once there and accessible to the majority has now turned into a minority group of 7 figure earners only interested in the high 6 figure affluent clientelle.
So where does that leave the 5 to low 6 figure women to go to?
That is when I came up with an idea and I wanted to share it with you to see what you think.
I believe it is time for a shake-up in the industry. And if you agree I’m prepared to do something about it.
I don’t know about you but I love it when …
I believe the women entrepreneur community is a bit lost, dis-empowered and unsupported and I for one want to change that feeling.
I want to build this momentum together with you because I truly believe collectively we can create a huge positive wave that will impact the lives of many women around the world.
I have an idea that I think you are going to love. But before I dedicate time and energy to creating this amazing hub for women. A place for you to activate | accelerate | achieve huge positive ripples in all areas of your life, I have to know if you want to join me.
This is not going to be another ‘happy girls forum’ to hang out in and make each other feel warm and fuzzy on the inside. No way there are already plenty of those online already.
This is going to be HUGELY different. This is going to be a place where you will be challenged to push through barriers that you never thought possible.
A place where I may even push your buttons, make you face some harsh realities while showing you how to create massive positive change in your life to get the results you have always dreamed of achieving.
I mean let’s get serious for a moment. You only get one chance at this thing called life, so what are you waiting for?
…Time is running out baby and no one can make it happen but YOU!
I want to create a community where you will create ‘A WIN’ in all areas of your life including:
All while reaching your big audacious goals!
We are talking BIG Success Growth Spurts
It will be a place where buttons will be pushed, but results will be massive.
A place where the support, attitude and intelligence will be superior to any other group or community you’ve ever been a part of before, because failing forward is the only way to win the game! Somewhere where each and every day you will be creating ‘A Win’.
Let’s build a movement for many women to grow, prosper and give together.
If this is a community that you would be interested in being a part of can you please opt-in below to show your interest. If there is enough desire to create this HUMONGOUS POSITIVE SHIFT …..then I will make it happen!